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"It makes me so excited, not because it's like 'Oh look at how good I am at making people join my group', it's not about that. It's girls and guys who recognize themselves as beautiful and also it's learning to love yourself.'' The idea started when Heather made her own refreshing profile for Facebook during the Christmas holidays. "I just made it because I thought how I really like who I am and other people like who I am. And I thought about people telling me I'm beautiful but it's not because I have tanned skin, blonde hair and a double D cup or anything. It's something different," she says in her straightforward manner. "And so I thought about the contrast about what's beautiful and what the industry says is beautiful and expects from beauty." She bandied the idea of a Facebook group with her friend, Olivia Skagos, who lives in British Columbia. With her friend onboard, Heather created the Beauty vs. Industry group about a week ago with their profiles to start with. She invited her friends to join and make a profile of themselves. "I said, 'You know I think you're beautiful and I don't think it matters what the industry thinks. So if you think you're beautiful you should join and make a profile so that others can see how beautiful they are'." Others quickly mirrored Heather's honest and humorous approach to her profile. "Writing it is just a fun experience in itself and I want other people to feel that too. Because just making that little thing, even if you don't show it to anybody you're still writing it out and you're happy with yourself and that's what I like." Heather happily thumbs through some of the latest profile additions, including one from Elora that reads: "My socks don't match. My shoes are Payless, not Prada but I am happy. I've got people who love me. I'll speak my mind and wear two different socks if I feel like it. I'll play in the rain because I'm not afraid to get my hair wet. I'm happy just the way I am. I am me, NOT the industry." The format that Heather used as a layout for her own profile — a photo which is a backdrop to the written content — has also become a basic template for others who then take it off in their own direction. "What I really enjoy is that people aren't being timid about what they are writing," says Heather. "And they are just saying what makes them them and those are the things (that) are wonderful." Look for Heather Ross's Facebook group at www.facebook.com. Search for Beauty vs. Industry. It is at present located on the second page of the group listings. Copyright Waldron H. Leard |